grandparents

Grandma called last night. "Thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you thankyou...".

I was surprised that she actually let me provide, cook, serve and clean up after Mother's Day dinner. This is a woman who is the ultimate hostess. Everyone who enters her home is treated to food, drink and loving care. She expects to serve all who visit - in fact, I don't remember another occasion when she allowed someone to look after her.

At 88 and 91, my grandparents are still vibrant, active people who reside on their 82 acre farm. They manage all household tasks alone and do not ask for anything except occasional assistance with a light bulb change. The property surrounding the house is maintained by them - riding along on their his and hers tractors cutting the lawn.

Grandpa is severely arthritic and Grandma is losing her sight but it does not keep them down. They are opening the pool again this year for all the great-grandkids to enjoy - the house will be teeming with people this summer!

These two people have my greatest admiration and respect. Their ethics and values have been passed along to my generation - we are all honorable people thanks to them.

It was a good Mother's Day. I'm happy Grandma accepted what was offered and enjoyed it!