cleaning the house or something productive! Today is my first whole day off at home (at least during school hours) in 7 1/2 years! Plans of cleaning and organizing have not been met thus far - as I meander through the day lazily enjoying the quite and solitude. So much noise lately. The kids have been loud and argumentative - disagreeing with each other over insignificant 'offenses' like chewing too loudly, singing, or looking the wrong way. There has been alot of disruption with J being out of town, the approach of the end of the school year, parties, swim tests etc...still...I have been longing for a peaceful space for some time now - and I'm revelling in the day.
We have survived almost 6 weeks on the candida diet. It has done amazing things for 6. She is much more confident, making new friends, asking to wear dresses, and feeling much better about her body. The bloating she was experiencing has completely diminished. She has been feeling 'full' after eating - something I don't think she could identify before because she was so bloated for years. Poor kid must have always felt full! All this positive has occurred despite some pretty difficult situations of late.
Last week, 4 decided to share a piece of very personal information with some friends. She told them not to tell, but you know what happens with kids...It was like a bad version of the shampoo commercial where news spreads like wildfire. By the day's end, the entire school know that 6 wears pull-ups at night. I have never made a big deal of it. She'll get there when her body is ready. She has seen a urologist for bladder infections and there is no medical problem. Still, it is devastating to have your peers whispering and teasing about the issue. I can't remember being so angry with one of my kids before. I couldn't even think of a reasonable punishment! It ended up with 4 missing a birthday party and spending 3 days at home with no social interaction (good punishment for the social butterfly), and the noise at school died down the next day so 6 has managed through the mess. ARGH!
Swimming lessons have caused another conflict. 4 has spent the entire session bobbing helplessly in the water - batting her eyes at the teacher and hoping to be rescued from drowning. She hass modelled her bright pink bathing cap and matching swim siut at every lesson and managed to do as little actual swimming as possible. 6 on the other hand has applied her usual intense focus and attention to each lesson - swimming as many as 40 lengths in an hour and learing both the elementary back stroke and the breast stroke this term. Her teacher ahs commented on her talent and focus - once again we have been advised we have the makings of a successful competitive swimmer on our hands.
Last week was report card week. 4 passed her level 3 Red Cross. How?! When it was time for the test, she dove into the pool and swam 2 lengths each of front crawl and back crawl. I do not know how she learned this in 10 weeks of bobbing like a jellyfish! 6 did not pass hwer level 7. Still needs work on the whip kick. Fair enough, but it sure does not seem fair to have one work like a fiend to 'fail' and the other float her way to a badge. 6 is somewhat distraught, but will try again this week. I am sure she will pass her level 7 over the summer!
Start my new job in a week or so. We'll see what kind of self-discipline I have. Hope today is not any indication of how lazy I can really be!!!